PL ASK NO RETURN..

NO one has a right to say to another: because we belong to each other as we do, I have a right to know all ur thinkings...Not even a mom can treat her child in that way........All such expectations are foolish and unworthy....In this matter, Giving, is the only worthwhile process: It is only giving that stimulates....Impart as much as u can of ur spiritual being to those who are on the road with you, and accept as something precious what comes back to u from them.

AMBITIOUS,BUT NOT SO........

THE life is like day-dreaming.....and the easy prey are the youth and young children. they want everything in their hands.....is it possible? let the question be ambiguous?
The average human being must choose a goal within his/her reach and not seek an unattainable one by daydreaming. ...in the world of daydreams every girl is a queen, a glamorous heroine, a film star and what not. every boy is a film hero, a pilot,a politician, an engineer,or IT professional. strange enough, all these glittering goals are achieved effortlessly(in mind), through the dreams they think theirs, rather than hard work, which they expect to avoid. ...they find the goals which flatter their egos, without ever considering their ability to achieve them...however, in practical life they are unable to reaching them, and hardly do any serious efforts, their INFERIORITY complex grows. ...any alternative?.......yes, to shift the goal. no doubt, it may be disgusting not to become a hero, but with hard work and concentration, one can become an accountant or a photographer, or a small shop-owner(in future with the above faculties, he certainly will grow) and this will be more satisfying than a dream which may never come true.

toffee

t=for toffee and t =for temptation. today evening my grandson alongwith his friends came to me to ask for toffee, which i generally give. after some time i was taking tea with a friend, they again came ,2 or 3, and swept eatables away without asking. then this question was roamiing in my mind, why children ask for toffee, i think for different tastes and their inherent attachment with the sugarcoated things. i understood that the later may be the reason. excess leads them to doctors.
what i wanted to compare is that the temptation is prevalent from small to an adult and the old alike. this starts from inner desire to acquire, whether that is in reach or beyond.
one cat with watery mouth was looking at the grapes bunch. either she reaches there or the grapes fall on ground. after waiting for hours, she made a mouth, and said that they are sour ones that is why not falling on the ground. and she left the venue. since then on the saying started that the 'GRAPES ARE SOUR'. MEANS THE THING U CANNOT ACQUIRE EASILY, IS SOUR. and the temptation continues and grapes are sour always.