Thursday, February 4, 2010

Promiscuity in boys and girls...

The boys in their adolescence seem to bear a compelling desire to prove their manhood....however, the meaning is different in every locality...Somewhere they wud drive a battered convertible at the unbelievable speed of supersonic, at other place they wud prove by scoring a touchdown having the enemy tacklers....Their demonstrations are mostly to satisfy themselves as much daring as possible to quench the developing sensual appetite, that may turn into physical act of love, which some teenage societies demand.

2. In his sensuousness, the boy may think that he must prove himself with the town child-harlot or otherwise with woman above his age...There is the psychological danger inherent in it....Since these are his first attempts, he may fail badly, because, still psychologically he is not prepared for these....These may scare him badly having an indirect effect in his physical body and mentally too. Viewing his own behaviour, these attempt may frighten him, resulting in lateral impotence. Though that may be temporary, but he is unaware of this aspect....They are in the middle of the development of their mind...thus they require help, which their parents can provide, understanding the sensitivity of their son(s) in the coming future as well.

3. On the part of the parents, who understand their son's daily requirement of allowances, homework etc may fail to handle the problem of his sexual urges, may be through psychiatrists. Many may think, that the problem will be solved automatically by the passing of time....Their thinking of this nature is disastrously unhelpful.......to continue

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